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Friday, October 11, 2013

How To Increase Your Woman's Sexual Desire

It has been said over and over that most women don’t desire sex as frequently as men do. This is largely due to the physiological makeup of the female being.

While a man is aroused by the mere sight of the nakedness or writhing of a female body, a woman will have to be tuned up through sweet talks, body touches, or appreciative comments about her looks for her to feel like having sex. This difference is what has made sexual intimacy among couples a mirage for most married men.

This is also a source of concern for most women since their husbands look impossible with reference to sexual demands on their wives. Thus, most women feel that their husbands are just inconsiderate human beings who behave selfishly in their sexual demands. To them, all that a man thinks of is sex all of the time.

However, over the years, it has been discovered that the frequency of sexual desire of women can be increased with the support from, or deliberate effort of their husbands. How this is achieved is the subject of this discuss. If a man desires his wife to frequent the bedroom with him, he may need to do more to help his wife become sex hungry. In most cases, most married women’s attitude towards sex is a reflection of their husbands’ treatment. So, every husband who wants to increase his wife’s sexual desire must learn to do the following:

Stay close to her
Move closer to your wife by spending more time with her and sharing your deep thoughts with her. Closeness to her demands carrying her along in your dealings, daily schedules, fears, aspirations, and concerns. The frequency of such time spent together will also enhance the chances of sexual intercourse between the couple, since one thing may lead to another. Such time spent together should not just be only to discuss your feelings with her, it should also be to listen to her own stories or things she wants to discuss with you. By nature, a woman wants to be listened to. So, you should allow her to pour out her mind. When you do this, it is a major signal of your love for her. Many husbands do not realise that such time spent with their wives is actually an opportunity to secure sex from her.

Show more care and concern
Be more caring by showing great and active interest in things that interest her in the areas of her career, hobbies, health, and parental issues. It soars your credentials with her when you concern yourself with such affairs of her life. It makes her feel great about you and prepares her emotionally to be with you in bed.

Adore her
Make her feel she is the most important person in your life. In fact, do everything to make her feel that you can’t live without her. Husbands need to learn the art of adoring their wives. This will secure great sex from any woman. To adore her means holding her in high esteem and verbalising it to her; be all over her wherever you are as a sign that you enjoy being with her. Without being boring or monitoring her, keep in touch with her regularly through the phone especially when you are away from each other due to work schedule, and social functions. This should not be difficult since most men do that while wooing their wives for marriage.

Learn the art of lovemaking
Learn the art of lovemaking with reference to foreplay, coitus, afterglow treatment and so forth. In my counselling experience, I have discovered that most couples, especially the religious ones, do not have good knowledge of sexual relationship. No thanks to the many religious houses, who do not prepare them ahead for sex in marriage. Many of us thus enter into marriage to learn by trial and error, and in an attempt not to be seen as being promiscuous, we shy away from discussing our sexual satisfaction or dissatisfaction with our spouse, preferring to suffer in silence. Unfortunately, it is the wife that suffers the most since she is the one who is left sexually unfulfilled most of the time by the inexperienced husband. No wonder she feigns tiredness, headaches and stomach upset most of the time for her to avoid miserable times spent in bed with her husband.

It beats my imagination why a wife will feign all manner of ailments to avoid the beauty of sex, if she has discovered its sweetness. Or do you think ants can smell honey, and not be drawn to it? That is what sex is if properly handled by couples; you cannot run away from such a wonderful experience called sex in marriage.

A man must therefore learn the art of lovemaking if he will secure frequent great sex acts from his wife. He must spend time and money on literatures and seminars to discover how to make his wife desire sex regularly from him. There is nothing you need to know that somebody has not known already. I bet it with you, it will be worth the effort at the end of the day. When your wife is sexually satisfied, she will be ever ready to do it with you over and over as you learn to treat her the right ways in your marriage.

Be sensitive to her moods and sexual advances
You just have to learn to play along with her games for sexual enjoyment. Be ready to be there for her when she needs you sexually. Don’t make her feel used during sexual acts. Rather, you should help her attain high level of sexual intercourse by yielding to her requests with reference to how you hold, touch, and enter into her during sexual acts. This will go a long way to making her look forward to another sexual moment with you.

Understand and use her love key
Love keys as the things that make your wife feel most loved, and which, if absent in your relationship with her, makes her feel bad and make her non responsive to your frequent sexual demands. Of course, the same goes for you as a person; every one of us has what makes us feel loved and turns us on sexually when we are treated to those things.

Give her full attention during sexual intercourse
This makes a woman to want to be with a man over and over. You are not just enjoying yourself; you are also making her to enjoy herself as well. Thus, being with her spirit, soul and body at the moment of sexual acts matters to her. You should avoid picking your calls in the middle of sexual acts. To avoid minimal distractions during sexual intercourse, couples should learn to put their phone in silence or switch it off completely. Also, couples should not rush into sexual intercourse, except when you are doing a ‘quickee’, and it is better enjoyed and more pleasurable, when it is at the instance of the wife. At that moment, she is ready and emotionally prepared for the husband and I can assure you that it will be a grea pleasurable experience for you, since you are ever ready as a man. My husband does not allow such opportunities to be wasted.

Make sex a free discussion between you

Thursday, October 10, 2013

Solomon Lar Dies At 80

Second Republic governor of old Plateau State and first national chairman of the ruling Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) Chief Solomon Daushep Lar breathed his last yesterday in the United States. Lar, aged 80, reportedly died about 3pm American time (8:00 pm Nigerian time). Though details of the cause of his death were still sketchy at press time, a family source confided in LEADERSHIP that he had been battling with diabetes for a long time.

A source said Lar died in his home in Maryland, while another said he passed on in an undisclosed private hospital in the US.

There was anxiety on Monday over his health, as it was confirmed that he was on life support in a hospital in the US.

A family member who did not want his name in print told LEADERSHIP in Jos on phone that “Baba” finally gave up the ghost yesterday afternoon in Washington, US.

Confirming the passing on of the elder statesman, Plateau State governor Jonah Jang stated that he was informed of Lar’s death through his family.

“The family informed me of his death and I feel duty-bound to inform the good people of the state,” Jang said during a courtesy visit by the new speaker of the Plateau State House of Assembly, Hon. Titus Ayuba Alams, at Jishe Government Lodge in Jos.

Beni Lar devasted

The daughter of the deceased and member of the House of Representatives, Hon. Beni Lar said she was devastated by the news of her father’s death.

A relative who answered her phone told LEADERSHIP last night “the lawmaker is too devastated to speak now . She will be speaking over the issue shortly”.

Beni Lar, who had earlier in the day led the House Committee on Human Rights which she chairs to the National Refugee Commission at the Federal Secretariat for an oversight function, had to hurriedly leave the National Assembly Complex when the news filtered to her.

Efforts to reach her on phone were unfruitful as her personal assistant who was taking her calls explained that “she couldn’t take any calls for now”.

Nigeria’ll remember Lar as a great hero of democracy – Jonathan

President Goodluck Jonathan has stated that he received with sadness the passing on of the former governor of old Plateau State and founding chairman of the PDP.

In a statement by his spokesman, Dr Reuben Abati, Jonathan said that the late Lar would be remembered as a great hero of democracy.

The president also condoled with the Lar family, Governor Jonah Jang, the people of Plateau State, the people of the middle belt and all others for whom the late Lar was a much-beloved, charismatic and inspirational political leader.

The statement reads in part: “The president believes that Chief Lar will always be remembered for the exemplary humility, great vision, wisdom and maturity which he brought to political leadership in Nigeria for over 50 years as a legislator, executive governor, party leader and highly revered elder statesman.

“He also trusts that present and future generations of Nigerians will always acknowledge and honour Chief Lar’s role as one of the founders and architects of the country’s current democratic dispensation which he helped to establish and stabilize.

Lar was a builder par excellence - Mark

President of the Senate David Mark has expressed regret over the demise of the foremost political leader, describing him as a rare Nigerian who propagated the tenet of democracy and lived to see the actualisation of the people’s will.

Reacting to the news of the passing unto glory of the elder statesman, Mark noted that the late Lar would be remembered for fighting for democracy and enthronement of the people’s mandate against all odds.

He recalled that it was Lar who led the group of G-34 which later metamorphosed into today’s Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) that has sustained the democratic rule all Nigerians now enjoy.

Mark said: “We owe him a great deal of gratitude. He surely has a place of pride in the political history of Nigeria. Lar was a different kind of leader. He put the people and the nation first before self.

He was an elder statesman - Tambuwal

Speaker of the House of Representatives Hon. Aminu Waziri Tambuwal has expressed immense sadness over the passing on of Chief Lar, whom he described as an elder statesman par excellence.

In a press statement signed by his special assistant on media, Malam Imam Imam, and made available to LEADERSHIP last night, Tambuwal also added that he received the news with a feeling of great national loss and would always remember him as a man of integrity whose forthrightness and wisdom stood him out among his peers.

He added that the late former Plateau governor lived a fulfilled life full of accomplishments and notable contributions to national unity.

Lar, accomplished politician – ACF

The Arewa Consultative Forum (ACF) has described the late Chief Solomon Lar as an accomplished politician of repute, saying that the country has lost a champion of the masses.

Speaking in a statement made available yesterday by its spokesman, Anthony Sani , the ACF stated that the late Lar passed on at a time his fatherly advice would be needed over national issues.

The statement reads in part, “Lar was the spirit and face of his people and gave all his life to them. Many Nigerians would pass him for someone who struggled for the rights of his people with courage and in hope.

“Considering what he stood and died for, one can imagine his body lying in both peace and pain: the peace associated with death and the pain of what he has left behind: a divided people in endless blame game and engagement of the past at the expense of how to move the nation forward.

“Chief Lar may not be any more with us because no one can fill the void he has left behind in the life of the nation and lives of loved ones. But in a way, he is very much around, considering he needs no monuments to remind us of his legacies.

Northern govs mourn, say Nigeria has lost a patriot

The Northern States Governors’ Forum (NSGF) has described the death of the first civilian governor of the old Plateau State as a devastating loss to the people of Plateau State in particular and the nation in general.

Chairman of the forum and Niger State governor Babangida Aliyu said with the death of Lar, Nigeria has lost a patriot of uncommon courage.

The Forum’s condolence was contained in a statement signed by Governor Aliyu’s spokesman, Danladi Ndayebo.

The Forum added that Lar was a recurrent decimal in the nation’s polity for over five decades, either as a legal practitioner, member of the nation’s first national parliament, state governor, first national chairman of the PDP or an elder statesman.

The statement described the late Lar as a nationalist who lived a purposeful life of dedication to the cause of the nation’s unity and dedication as well as commitment to the uplift of the citizenry.

Lar, a titan of democracy - Anenih

Chairman of the Board of Trustees of the PDP, Chief Tony Anenih, has described the death of Lar, as a great loss to both the party and the nation.

Anenih, who started this yesterday while reacting to the news of Lar’s passage said, “This is indeed sad and very painful. Chief Lar was a great leader and pillar of our Party. He was a titan of democracy whose leadership and invaluable advice will be missed by the PDP family, especially at this time when efforts are being made at genuine reconciliation.”

Declaring that the elder statesman would be sorely missed by the PDP and the nation, Anenih sympathized with the wife of Chief Lar and family members and prayed that the Almighty God would grant them the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss.

Nigeria has lost a great statesman - Atiku

Former Vice President Atiku Abubakar last night reacted to the death of pioneer chairman of the PDP, Chief Solomon Lar, describing his demise as the loss of one of the country’s greatest statesmen.

Atiku, who stated in a statement by his media office, said, “He was a leader Nigeria needed at each time of crisis,” Atiku said noting that his departure will be most felt at this time when there is growing disagreement among the country’s political elite.

Atiku added that the late Lar’s “fight for his middle-belt region in particular and Nigerians in general will be remembered by every worthy historian of this era.”

We’ve lost finest political Figure - Ekweremadu

The deputy president of the Senate, Ike Ekweremadu, expressed shock and sadness over the death of Chief Lar. He said: “We have lost one of the finest political figures of our time and a hero of our current democratic dispensation; his death marks the end of an era.”

He condoled with the government and people of Plateau State and the nation and prayed for the peaceful repose of the soul of the dead.

He was a quintessential patriot - PDP

The PDP has expressed deep sadness over the death of its pioneer national chairman, the late Chief Solomon Lar, describing the development as a huge loss to the nation.

The PDP national publicity secretary, Chief Olisa Metuh, in a statement said the death of the politician has “left a big vacuum not only in the party but in Plateau State and the nation at large”.

The party said, “Our hearts reach out to the government and people of Plateau State, the millions of PDP family nationwide, but most importantly to his loved ones and immediate family.

“Chief Lar will be remembered for his insistence on the emancipation of the masses and his white handkerchief. That is why he was fondly called ‘The Emancipator’. PDP members will not forget the image of Chief Lar on the podium with his white handkerchief singing and dancing to the PDP song,” the statement further. “PDP at the national level will participate fully in ensuring that Chief Lar is given an equivalent of a party national burial.”

We have lost a rare gem - new PDP

The Alhaji Abubakar Kawu Baraje-led PDP yesterday described the death of Chief Lar as an irreparable loss, saying he was a first-class patriot.

A statement by the party’s spokesman, Chief Eze Chukwuemeka Eze, said “Chief Lar was a colourful politician of substance, a first-class patriot and an accomplished administrator.

“As pioneer chairman of PDP, he played a significant role in laying a solid foundation on which his successors built to make the party the poster boy of Nigerian politics and in sustaining and growing our hard-won democracy.

“Chief Lar’s death, coming on the heels of that of another of our former leader, Dr Olusegun Agagu, has robbed both our great party and the country at large of a rare voice of wisdom.

Gen. Useni mourns

The former minister of the Federal Capital Territory, General Jeremiah Useni, has stated that the demise of Chief Solomon Lar was a great loss to the country, saying that Nigerians would miss his wise counsel.

He added that the contribution of Lar to the enthronement of Nigeria democracy would never be forgotten in a hurry.

His death a great loss - Prof Alkali

A former national publicity secretary of the PDP, Prof. Rufai Ahmed Alkali, has expressed deep shock over Lar’s death. According to him, “Nigeria has once again lost a deeply committed leader, elder and fearless democrat. May God grant his family the strength and courage to bear this huge loss with fortitude.

We’ll miss his fatherly advice – Gov Suswam

Benue State governor Gabriel Suswam has stated that the late Chief Solomon Lar was a political icon, adding that the political class will surely miss his fatherly advice.

He said, “ It’s a sad death for a man who lived and died serving Nigeria. Benue

State and the people of Benue will miss his fatherly advice. My condolence goes to the Lar family, the government and people of Plateau State and the entire Middle Belt.

Death of Lar a big blow to democracy - Amosun

Ogun State Governor Ibikunle Amosun has described the demise of Lar, as a big blow to democracy.

In a statement signed by his Senior special assistant on media, Mrs Funmi Wakama, Amosun described the late Lar as an icon of democracy, whose contributions to the enthronement of civil rule would remain indelible in the annals of Nigeria.

He said, “As civilian governor of Plateau State, Chief Solomon Lar brought development to the nooks and crannies of the state. He was a thoroughbred democrat, detribalized Nigerian and a firm believer in the rule of law, justice and equity.”

He was a man of impeachable character – Ogbulafor

A former national chairman of the PDP, Chief Vincent Ogbulafor, described his predecessor as a man of impeachable character.

He said, “Chief Lar was one of the founders of the party. Nigeria has lost a great man who left his footsteps in the sands of time. We will surely miss him. May his soul rest in peace.”

He was a political iroko – Nwodo

Another former national chairman of PDP, Dr Okwesilieze Nwodo, described the late Lar as an astute politician of repute, saying that his demise was a great loss to the country. He said, “The news of Chief Solomon Lar’s death, the first national chairman of PDP, reached me as a shock. In his death, Nigeria has lost another political iroko, the real bridge builder whose political space was large enough to accommodate all irrespective of tribe, religion or region. He loved his country and would take any risk for its peace and unity. May his soul rest in peace.”

Wednesday, October 9, 2013

AJAOKUTA STEEL CRUCIAL TO NIGERIA’S DEV – WADA

Kogi State Governor Idris Wada said yesterday that completion and successful take- off of the Ajaokuta Steel Company is the cornerstone of the nation’s development.

Wada stated this when he received the Ukrainian Ambassador to Nigeria Valery Vasyliev, President General of Ukrainian National Foreign Economic Corporation Eugine Kosic, Vazmash Inpex LLC and Managing Director, REPROM Nig. Ltd Attah Achimugu, who are technical partners to the steel company.
The governor, who was represented by his deputy, Yomi Awoniyi, said the country would witness a new dawn when the steel plant becomes functional.
Earlier in his speech, the Ukranian Ambassador to Nigeria Valery Vasyliev said his country is the biggest exporter of steel and has the experience to turn around the fortune of the moribund steel plant.
Also speaking, President General of Ukrainian National Foreign Economic Corporation Eugine Kosic said since 1998, VAZMASH INPEX LLC, has been showing interest in the resuscitation of the steel plant, assuring that with the combination of world experts in the organization, the Ajaokuta Steel company will be a reality soon.
He said the steel plant is still intact despite many years of neglect, calling for the collaboration of government at all levels to make the project a reality.
He added that a working rehabilitation plan to make the steel plant commence operation has gotten the approval of the Federal Ministry of Steel.

PANIC IN IMO: Launched Rocket Lands In Residential Area

Confusion in Okigwe Local Government Area of Imo State: two teenagers launched a rocket which landed in a residential area scaring the people.

Photo - Science students scare local launching rocket

Being the students of the Federal Government College in the area, the boys launched the device as part of a science project.

Residents of the Umuchime Ubahu community thought that it was a bomb. The people who live in the house where the rocket landed called the police.

The rocket had been expected to reach a maximum distance on 5 kilometres from the launch site but it went farther, which caused panic among locals.

Commissioner of Police Muhammad Musa Katsina, however, dispelled fears of terrorism, saying the “amateur scientists”, who launched the home-made rocket, did not mean any harm.

Katsina, however, asked the residents to stay security-conscious and report suspicious movements to the police.

“There was no terrorism motive in the act. We enjoin people to go about their activities without fear,” Katsina said.

“The rocket has been deactivated and is safe. The components as discovered by the Police Bomb Disposal Unit do not contain any radioactive or toxic element."

“Because the boys intended no harm, no punitive measures will be taken."

He called the boys talented students improving their scientific skills and recommended to encourage them so they could achieve greater things.

I’LL SOON RETURN TO THE BARRACKS —AL-MUSTAPHA

Major Hamza Al-Mustpha, former Chief Security Officer (CSO) to late Head of State General Sani Abacha, yesterday said he will soon return to the barracks in uniform as a soldier in active duty.

Al-Mustapha who was recently set free after 15 years incarceration for alleged involvement in the murder of Mrs Kudirat Abiola also said his tours of the country to speak with youths has nothing to do with the politics of 2015. He said he was continuing with his youth empowerment which he began in 1984 and continued even in jail.
Al-Mustapha met various youth groups in Lafia yesterday in preparation for their registration for a scheme that is expected to take them off the streets. He told newsmen that he will return to the barracks as soon as the court processes are served on the military high command for him to be accepted back as a soldier.
He said: “First of all, I was arrested wrongly, framed up, taken to court wrongly; persecuted, punished, humiliated beyond the definitions of the law, from all the judgments - the High Court, up to the Federal High Court, and the Appeal Court. The judgments given are well spelt out.”
The former presidential security aide said that over 22 million young people in the Northern part of Nigeria alone are on the street with nothing to do.
Al-Mustapha also paid homage to the Emir of Lafia, Alhaji Isa Mustapha Agwai I, and the Sangarin Kwandere, Alhaji Ahmadu Al-Makura
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I’LL SOON RETURN TO THE BARRACKS —AL-MUSTAPHA

Major Hamza Al-Mustpha, former Chief Security Officer (CSO) to late Head of State General Sani Abacha, yesterday said he will soon return to the barracks in uniform as a soldier in active duty.

I’LL SOON RETURN TO THE BARRACKS —AL-MUSTAPHA

Major Hamza Al-Mustpha, former Chief Security Officer (CSO) to late Head of State General Sani Abacha, yesterday said he will soon return to the barracks in uniform as a soldier in active duty.